I’ve not really got any content to add today. I’m so disappointed with the latest lockdown news. I feel like the whole country pulled together at the start of the year to give the government time to come up with a strategy and all they’ve done is blow a ton of money and we’re back where we started.
I cried last night rather selfishly as my first mums night is cancelled friday due to it. I’ve really struggled making mum friends and was really looking forward to bonding with these fab girls. One of them however works on the critical care area of a local hospital as a consultant and as I cried I felt so selfish. It’s her first week back and she says it’s horrible. There she is facing it every shift (as well as all the other amazing frontline workers, whether it be dr, nurse, assistant, SLT, porter) and I’m on my sofa crying into my toblerone.
I’m also annoyed with the hubsters ex wife dictating how we spend our time as a family at a weekend. She’s already lied about saying we had an extra weekend with my SD (confirmed in text message) to only take it away and make it out like it was our mistake.
My hubster and her had a conversation about school clubs in the summer for my SD during this pandemic and my hubster said he wasnt keen on team sports right now and could we revisit in the new year. She never replied. She’s now booked her into football and whilst I’ve been isolating shes taken her 3 weekends in a row. Apparently my SD loves it and will be devastated if we dont take her. So she’s manipulated a situation so we either disappoint my SD and look like the bad side or we take her to something we’re not comfortable with. I’m also furious its dictating what we shall do in our time without our agreement. Like why should our Saturday mornings be taken up with this without our consent when we could be spending family time the 4 of us. So mad.
So I guess I did have something to write. UK peeps how you finding update 3458? Hows it in the rest of the world?
Any advice on how to handle the ex wife welcomed. She text the itinerary to my hubby and he’s just ignoring her. If she texts me I want to call her out on manipulating a situation. But I don’t know if it will ruin the work I’ve put in trying to keep it friendly for my SD.