Today there has been a whisper of snow and I’ve enjoyed every part of it.
We went for a stomp, my SD and I over the fields with one of her friends. She wants to know why she’s not allowed her friends in the house and we’ve explained because mummy is breaking the rules.
It’s really hard to find the right words to do this when you want to say “your mother is a selfish XXXXX, who is behaving atrociously”.
My hubby and I are getting on a ton better and are being more loving towards each other. Lots of cuddles in the kitchen and snuggles on the sofa. I love it.
BB is developing her little personality. She seems to have her mothers temper and her fathers stubbornness so far. She is also most definitely a Daddys girl.
I’m really enjoying this slower pace of life. Noticing bird prints in the snow, little glances BB gives us, our little routine.
Looking forward to next year, I’m trying to think of new years resolutions. Staying sober is a given. As is working on my binge eating and starting my course. But I wonder if there’s a fun one in there. I’m thinking and will hopefully have an update closer to new year.
How are you all? Hope you’re all enjoying this bit between xmas and New Year.
Love
JS x
I am so looking forward to 2021. I know that turning the calendar doesn’t magically change anything, but I am going to really try to keep improving. This covid scare has made me value my health more than ever. I can’t wait to be back in SOME sort of routine, and have enough energy again to exercise, or at least do basic things around the house. Hmmm what could be a fun resolution? I’m not sure, mine have always centered on health and failed quickly
I want to send more mail to my friends as surprises. I got an adult coloring book with phrases like “you are fucking awesome” in it =)
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I stopped with resolutions and went with a word of the year. I have found setting myself up for success is very useful!
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I love this idea too. Have you read eat pray love, where every city has a word and every person. Really thought it made sense
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That sounds like a lovely resolution re mail. I really like that one. How you feeling? Xx
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I’m with you JS, on the slower pace- love your birdie prints in the snow!! Looking forward to catching up with blogger land!!
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It’s so great isnt it. When I was drinking I was always jumping on to the next thing. Fear of missing out. But I’m finding great peace in the moments. Its lovely
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That looks like a good amount of snow! There is tons here, sigh.
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We’ve just got a sprinkling. Enough for one very excited 7 year old 😂😂
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Really snowy here today. Hope you are ok ♥️♥️
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“Staying sober is a given.” This is awesome!! I hope overall you are doing well! We have had snow for days and days here, but that’s normal. It is really pretty! I am sure looking forward to a three day weekend!
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We’ve had a light sprinkling which was still pretty exciting. Ooh enjoy your weekend. Have you got any special plans-♡
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Staying in mostly but I told my husband today that it would be a good time for him to try making that chili over the weekend that he’s been talking about. ( He’s not much of a cook other than the grill. 😂) We shall see how that turns out!
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I’ve found that when surrounding someone with negativity and judgement,no matter how justified I perceive it to be, only brings more darkness to my life and those that surround me. Others caught in the middle definitely pick up on this vibe even if I think they won’t. A small step such as sending peace to them and myself allows more light and love to flow. This has been my experience and hope it helps in moving forward in 2021😊.
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That’s so true isnt it. ♡♡
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I hope it helps with SD’s mom✌️
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Yay! Snow walks!
We love looking for animal tracks in the snow!
Even found an owls or hawks wing tracks, where it had swooped down to grab something!
xo
Wendy
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